Sequence of Decision Making
A default sequence for decision making when working out a divorce agreement.
Mediation Definition
A concise, easy-to-understand definition of mediation
Online Divorce Mediation
Divorce mediation online rather than in-person.
Divorce Mediation – How Long?
How long does divorce mediation take? Here are the factors.
Mediation and Mindfulness
Parallels between mediation and mindfulness
Mediation Ground Rules
Ground rules to facilitate effective communication in mediation
Shadows
The law is one of a number of different “shadows” that can affect the negotiations in a divorce.
Caucusing – 14 Reasons
There can be a number of good reasons to caucus, which means to meet separately with each spouse.
Divorce Mediator Help
Some types of help a divorce mediator can provide.
Aim of Divorce Mediation
Is the aim of divorce mediation to reach a settlement?
Divorce Mediation as Problem Solving
Divorce mediation is perhaps most easily understood as a problem solving process.
Legal Advice in Divorce Mediation
Most divorce mediators think they should steer clear of giving legal advice. Giving legal information is different.
Law in Divorce Mediation
Divorce is in part a legal event so it’s wise to have some understanding of the relevant law.
Caucus in Divorce Mediation?
Reasons why it is normally best in divorce mediation for the mediator to meet with both spouses together
Reactivity: When it Interferes with Mediation
Steps a mediator can take when emotional reactivity interferes with progress.
Venting: Should it be Allowed in Divorce Mediation?
Should venting be allowed in divorce mediation or is it unproductive and even harmful?
